Wednesday, December 7th, 2011

Getting Over My Marriage Hangups

It seems that everyone in my social circle is getting engaged or married, which has forced my boyfriend and me to finally discuss this whole marriage business. I always vaguely envisioned marriage in my future, but in having to actually discuss it concretely, I realized how many hangups I have. See, I am very happy

Friday, November 18th, 2011

Latino Men Are Always The Most Critical Of Me

The people that get most upset about what I write are almost always Latino men. I’m not stereotyping or exaggerating — this is simply a fact. Nearly all of the hate mail that I’ve received after publishing...

Wednesday, November 9th, 2011

The Rules Of Attraction Are Different In Mexico

I was in my father’s hometown in Mexico tying some loose ends – signing off some property that was left to my name as part of my inheritance. My intention was not to be a landowner in...

Wednesday, November 2nd, 2011

Wondering About Women Who Hate Women

Ladies, have you ever walked into a room full of people and noticed that many of the women were giving you dirty looks for no reason at all? I call it being objectified — by women. I have...

Tuesday, September 13th, 2011

Online Dating As A Single, 40ish Mom

After a few years of consideration, I have ventured into the world of online dating. All my experiences in dating prior to this decision happened many years ago and had been face-to-face meetings before the first date....

Wednesday, July 20th, 2011

I Wanted To Marry A Latino, Fell For A White Guy

In college there was no doubt in my mind that I would marry a Mexican. I didn’t want my culture to be diluted. I wanted to live in a Spanish-speaking household. I wore Ché Guevara berets with...

Thursday, May 19th, 2011

Before You Leave, Know The 6 Stages Of A Relationship

Todas las personas al entrar en una relación quisieran que se cumpliera la frase “Y vivieron por siempre felices.” En la realidad...