Thursday, March 8th, 2012

I Love My Alcoholic Husband, Should I Take Him Back?

Dear Martha, I’m very sad, my husband — who I love very much — is an alcoholic. We have a two year-old daughter and this last holiday season, he became very intoxicated. I kicked him out of the house, because I couldn’t tolerate his behavior any longer. I’m suffering a lot and I’m afraid to fall into a

Wednesday, December 7th, 2011

Getting Over My Marriage Hangups

It seems that everyone in my social circle is getting engaged or married, which has forced my boyfriend and me to finally discuss this whole marriage business. I always vaguely envisioned marriage in my future, but in...

Thursday, August 25th, 2011

Should I Choose Love, Or Becoming A Mother?

Dear Martha, I’m so scared. I love my partner but my partner confessed that he has a disease that is degenerative and eventually can not bear children. I love him very much and I do not want...

Wednesday, August 24th, 2011

I Believe In Love, Just Not Weddings

I’ve always wondered if little girls really fantasize about their wedding day. I’ve never known a woman who actually did this. When I was a little girl, I mostly fantasized about the Muppet Babies and the pizza...

Thursday, April 28th, 2011

How To Survive In An Interracial Relationship

Interracial relationships come with their own unique set of challenges.  For starters, more often than not, it is those closest to you who are most critical of your relationship and the choices you’ve made.  There is a...